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March 15 H.H. The Dalai Lama talk on "Creating Positive Change" - 4/29/2007 by T
First of all, there is nothing absolute positive or negative. However, whatever brings you peace and happiness is positive. Whatever makes you angry, uneasy, anxious is negative. Mental status is more important than the physical being or materials you own in regard of happiness. One can be homeless but content or can be a millionaire with endless worries. Having said that, I still need this hat to block the light :) (Dalai Lama's eyes are sensitive to the strong light of the auditorium) Okay, I am done with the talk :) (Laugh...) How (to creating positive change)?
Q and A:
January 20 Obama's Inaugural AddressSource: CNN My fellow citizens: I stand here today humbled by the task before us, grateful for the trust you have bestowed, mindful of the sacrifices borne by our ancestors. I thank President Bush for his service to our nation, as well as the generosity and cooperation he has shown throughout this transition. Forty-four Americans have now taken the presidential oath. The words have been spoken during rising tides of prosperity and the still waters of peace. Yet, every so often, the oath is taken amidst gathering clouds and raging storms. At these moments, America has carried on not simply because of the skill or vision of those in high office, but because We the People have remained faithful to the ideals of our forebearers, and true to our founding documents. So it has been. So it must be with this generation of Americans. That we are in the midst of crisis is now well understood. Our nation is at war, against a far-reaching network of violence and hatred. Our economy is badly weakened, a consequence of greed and irresponsibility on the part of some, but also our collective failure to make hard choices and prepare the nation for a new age. Homes have been lost; jobs shed; businesses shuttered. Our health care is too costly; our schools fail too many; and each day brings further evidence that the ways we use energy strengthen our adversaries and threaten our planet. These are the indicators of crisis, subject to data and statistics. Less measurable but no less profound is a sapping of confidence across our land -- a nagging fear that America's decline is inevitable, and that the next generation must lower its sights.Today I say to you that the challenges we face are real. They are serious and they are many. They will not be met easily or in a short span of time. But know this, America: They will be met. On this day, we gather because we have chosen hope over fear, unity of purpose over conflict and discord. On this day, we come to proclaim an end to the petty grievances and false promises, the recriminations and worn-out dogmas, that for far too long have strangled our politics. We remain a young nation, but in the words of Scripture, the time has come to set aside childish things. The time has come to reaffirm our enduring spirit; to choose our better history; to carry forward that precious gift, that noble idea, passed on from generation to generation: the God-given promise that all are equal, all are free, and all deserve a chance to pursue their full measure of happiness. In reaffirming the greatness of our nation, we understand that greatness is never a given. It must be earned. Our journey has never been one of shortcuts or settling for less. It has not been the path for the fainthearted -- for those who prefer leisure over work, or seek only the pleasures of riches and fame. Rather, it has been the risk-takers, the doers, the makers of things -- some celebrated, but more often men and women obscure in their labor -- who have carried us up the long, rugged path toward prosperity and freedom. For us, they packed up their few worldly possessions and traveled across oceans in search of a new life. For us, they toiled in sweatshops and settled the West; endured the lash of the whip and plowed the hard earth. For us, they fought and died, in places like Concord and Gettysburg; Normandy and Khe Sahn. Time and again, these men and women struggled and sacrificed and worked till their hands were raw so that we might live a better life. They saw America as bigger than the sum of our individual ambitions; greater than all the differences of birth or wealth or faction. This is the journey we continue today. We remain the most prosperous, powerful nation on Earth. Our workers are no less productive than when this crisis began. Our minds are no less inventive, our goods and services no less needed than they were last week or last month or last year. Our capacity remains undiminished. But our time of standing pat, of protecting narrow interests and putting off unpleasant decisions -- that time has surely passed. Starting today, we must pick ourselves up, dust ourselves off, and begin again the work of remaking America. For everywhere we look, there is work to be done. The state of the economy calls for action, bold and swift, and we will act -- not only to create new jobs, but to lay a new foundation for growth. We will build the roads and bridges, the electric grids and digital lines that feed our commerce and bind us together. We will restore science to its rightful place, and wield technology's wonders to raise health care's quality and lower its cost. We will harness the sun and the winds and the soil to fuel our cars and run our factories. And we will transform our schools and colleges and universities to meet the demands of a new age. All this we can do. And all this we will do. Now, there are some who question the scale of our ambitions -- who suggest that our system cannot tolerate too many big plans. Their memories are short. For they have forgotten what this country has already done; what free men and women can achieve when imagination is joined to common purpose, and necessity to courage. What the cynics fail to understand is that the ground has shifted beneath them -- that the stale political arguments that have consumed us for so long no longer apply. The question we ask today is not whether our government is too big or too small, but whether it works -- whether it helps families find jobs at a decent wage, care they can afford, a retirement that is dignified. Where the answer is yes, we intend to move forward. Where the answer is no, programs will end. And those of us who manage the public's dollars will be held to account -- to spend wisely, reform bad habits, and do our business in the light of day -- because only then can we restore the vital trust between a people and their government. Nor is the question before us whether the market is a force for good or ill. Its power to generate wealth and expand freedom is unmatched, but this crisis has reminded us that without a watchful eye, the market can spin out of control -- and that a nation cannot prosper long when it favors only the prosperous. The success of our economy has always depended not just on the size of our gross domestic product, but on the reach of our prosperity; on our ability to extend opportunity to every willing heart -- not out of charity, but because it is the surest route to our common good. As for our common defense, we reject as false the choice between our safety and our ideals. Our Founding Fathers, faced with perils we can scarcely imagine, drafted a charter to assure the rule of law and the rights of man, a charter expanded by the blood of generations. Those ideals still light the world, and we will not give them up for expedience's sake. And so to all other peoples and governments who are watching today, from the grandest capitals to the small village where my father was born: Know that America is a friend of each nation and every man, woman and child who seeks a future of peace and dignity, and that we are ready to lead once more. Recall that earlier generations faced down fascism and communism not just with missiles and tanks, but with sturdy alliances and enduring convictions. They understood that our power alone cannot protect us, nor does it entitle us to do as we please. Instead, they knew that our power grows through its prudent use; our security emanates from the justness of our cause, the force of our example, the tempering qualities of humility and restraint. We are the keepers of this legacy. Guided by these principles once more, we can meet those new threats that demand even greater effort -- even greater cooperation and understanding between nations. We will begin to responsibly leave Iraq to its people, and forge a hard-earned peace in Afghanistan. With old friends and former foes, we will work tirelessly to lessen the nuclear threat, and roll back the specter of a warming planet. We will not apologize for our way of life, nor will we waver in its defense, and for those who seek to advance their aims by inducing terror and slaughtering innocents, we say to you now that our spirit is stronger and cannot be broken; you cannot outlast us, and we will defeat you. For we know that our patchwork heritage is a strength, not a weakness. We are a nation of Christians and Muslims, Jews and Hindus -- and nonbelievers. We are shaped by every language and culture, drawn from every end of this Earth; and because we have tasted the bitter swill of civil war and segregation, and emerged from that dark chapter stronger and more united, we cannot help but believe that the old hatreds shall someday pass; that the lines of tribe shall soon dissolve; that as the world grows smaller, our common humanity shall reveal itself; and that America must play its role in ushering in a new era of peace. To the Muslim world, we seek a new way forward, based on mutual interest and mutual respect. To those leaders around the globe who seek to sow conflict, or blame their society's ills on the West: Know that your people will judge you on what you can build, not what you destroy. To those who cling to power through corruption and deceit and the silencing of dissent, know that you are on the wrong side of history; but that we will extend a hand if you are willing to unclench your fist. To the people of poor nations, we pledge to work alongside you to make your farms flourish and let clean waters flow; to nourish starved bodies and feed hungry minds. And to those nations like ours that enjoy relative plenty, we say we can no longer afford indifference to suffering outside our borders; nor can we consume the world's resources without regard to effect. For the world has changed, and we must change with it. As we consider the road that unfolds before us, we remember with humble gratitude those brave Americans who, at this very hour, patrol far-off deserts and distant mountains. They have something to tell us today, just as the fallen heroes who lie in Arlington whisper through the ages. We honor them not only because they are guardians of our liberty, but because they embody the spirit of service; a willingness to find meaning in something greater than themselves. And yet, at this moment -- a moment that will define a generation -- it is precisely this spirit that must inhabit us all. For as much as government can do and must do, it is ultimately the faith and determination of the American people upon which this nation relies. It is the kindness to take in a stranger when the levees break, the selflessness of workers who would rather cut their hours than see a friend lose their job which sees us through our darkest hours. It is the firefighter's courage to storm a stairway filled with smoke, but also a parent's willingness to nurture a child, that finally decides our fate. Our challenges may be new. The instruments with which we meet them may be new. But those values upon which our success depends -- hard work and honesty, courage and fair play, tolerance and curiosity, loyalty and patriotism -- these things are old. These things are true. They have been the quiet force of progress throughout our history. What is demanded then is a return to these truths. What is required of us now is a new era of responsibility -- a recognition, on the part of every American, that we have duties to ourselves, our nation and the world; duties that we do not grudgingly accept but rather seize gladly, firm in the knowledge that there is nothing so satisfying to the spirit, so defining of our character, than giving our all to a difficult task. This is the price and the promise of citizenship. This is the source of our confidence -- the knowledge that God calls on us to shape an uncertain destiny. This is the meaning of our liberty and our creed -- why men and women and children of every race and every faith can join in celebration across this magnificent Mall, and why a man whose father less than 60 years ago might not have been served at a local restaurant can now stand before you to take a most sacred oath. So let us mark this day with remembrance, of who we are and how far we have traveled. In the year of America's birth, in the coldest of months, a small band of patriots huddled by dying campfires on the shores of an icy river. The capital was abandoned. The enemy was advancing. The snow was stained with blood. At a moment when the outcome of our revolution was most in doubt, the father of our nation ordered these words be read to the people: "Let it be told to the future world ... that in the depth of winter, when nothing but hope and virtue could survive... that the city and the country, alarmed at one common danger, came forth to meet [it]." America. In the face of our common dangers, in this winter of our hardship, let us remember these timeless words. With hope and virtue, let us brave once more the icy currents, and endure what storms may come. Let it be said by our children's children that when we were tested, we refused to let this journey end, that we did not turn back, nor did we falter; and with eyes fixed on the horizon and God's grace upon us, we carried forth that great gift of freedom and delivered it safely to future generations. November 05 Obama winning speech transcriptSource: from CNN. Hello, Chicago. If there is anyone out there who still doubts that America is a place where all things are possible, who still wonders if the dream of our founders is alive in our time, who still questions the power of our democracy, tonight is your answer. It's the answer told by lines that stretched around schools and churches in numbers this nation has never seen, by people who waited three hours and four hours, many for the first time in their lives, because they believed that this time must be different, that their voices could be that difference. It's the answer spoken by young and old, rich and poor, Democrat and Republican, black, white, Hispanic, Asian, Native American, gay, straight, disabled and not disabled. Americans who sent a message to the world that we have never been just a collection of individuals or a collection of red states and blue states. We are, and always will be, the United States of America. It's the answer that led those who've been told for so long by so many to be cynical and fearful and doubtful about what we can achieve to put their hands on the arc of history and bend it once more toward the hope of a better day. It's been a long time coming, but tonight, because of what we did on this date in this election at this defining moment change has come to America. A little bit earlier this evening, I received an extraordinarily gracious call from Sen. McCain. Sen. McCain fought long and hard in this campaign. And he's fought even longer and harder for the country that he loves. He has endured sacrifices for America that most of us cannot begin to imagine. We are better off for the service rendered by this brave and selfless leader. I congratulate him; I congratulate Gov. Palin for all that they've achieved. And I look forward to working with them to renew this nation's promise in the months ahead. I want to thank my partner in this journey, a man who campaigned from his heart, and spoke for the men and women he grew up with on the streets of Scranton and rode with on the train home to Delaware, the vice president-elect of the United States, Joe Biden. And I would not be standing here tonight without the unyielding support of my best friend for the last 16 years the rock of our family, the love of my life, the nation's next first lady Michelle Obama. Sasha and Malia I love you both more than you can imagine. And you have earned the new puppy that's coming with us to the new White House. And while she's no longer with us, I know my grandmother's watching, along with the family that made me who I am. I miss them tonight. I know that my debt to them is beyond measure. To my sister Maya, my sister Alma, all my other brothers and sisters, thank you so much for all the support that you've given me. I am grateful to them. And to my campaign manager, David Plouffe, the unsung hero of this campaign, who built the best -- the best political campaign, I think, in the history of the United States of America. To my chief strategist David Axelrod who's been a partner with me every step of the way. To the best campaign team ever assembled in the history of politics you made this happen, and I am forever grateful for what you've sacrificed to get it done. But above all, I will never forget who this victory truly belongs to. It belongs to you. It belongs to you. I was never the likeliest candidate for this office. We didn't start with much money or many endorsements. Our campaign was not hatched in the halls of Washington. It began in the backyards of Des Moines and the living rooms of Concord and the front porches of Charleston. It was built by working men and women who dug into what little savings they had to give $5 and $10 and $20 to the cause. It grew strength from the young people who rejected the myth of their generation's apathy who left their homes and their families for jobs that offered little pay and less sleep. It drew strength from the not-so-young people who braved the bitter cold and scorching heat to knock on doors of perfect strangers, and from the millions of Americans who volunteered and organized and proved that more than two centuries later a government of the people, by the people, and for the people has not perished from the Earth. This is your victory. And I know you didn't do this just to win an election. And I know you didn't do it for me. You did it because you understand the enormity of the task that lies ahead. For even as we celebrate tonight, we know the challenges that tomorrow will bring are the greatest of our lifetime -- two wars, a planet in peril, the worst financial crisis in a century. Even as we stand here tonight, we know there are brave Americans waking up in the deserts of Iraq and the mountains of Afghanistan to risk their lives for us. There are mothers and fathers who will lie awake after the children fall asleep and wonder how they'll make the mortgage or pay their doctors' bills or save enough for their child's college education. There's new energy to harness, new jobs to be created, new schools to build, and threats to meet, alliances to repair. The road ahead will be long. Our climb will be steep. We may not get there in one year or even in one term. But, America, I have never been more hopeful than I am tonight that we will get there. I promise you, we as a people will get there. There will be setbacks and false starts. There are many who won't agree with every decision or policy I make as president. And we know the government can't solve every problem. But I will always be honest with you about the challenges we face. I will listen to you, especially when we disagree. And, above all, I will ask you to join in the work of remaking this nation, the only way it's been done in America for 221 years -- block by block, brick by brick, calloused hand by calloused hand. What began 21 months ago in the depths of winter cannot end on this autumn night. This victory alone is not the change we seek. It is only the chance for us to make that change. And that cannot happen if we go back to the way things were. It can't happen without you, without a new spirit of service, a new spirit of sacrifice. So let us summon a new spirit of patriotism, of responsibility, where each of us resolves to pitch in and work harder and look after not only ourselves but each other. Let us remember that, if this financial crisis taught us anything, it's that we cannot have a thriving Wall Street while Main Street suffers. In this country, we rise or fall as one nation, as one people. Let's resist the temptation to fall back on the same partisanship and pettiness and immaturity that has poisoned our politics for so long. Let's remember that it was a man from this state who first carried the banner of the Republican Party to the White House, a party founded on the values of self-reliance and individual liberty and national unity. Those are values that we all share. And while the Democratic Party has won a great victory tonight, we do so with a measure of humility and determination to heal the divides that have held back our progress. As Lincoln said to a nation far more divided than ours, we are not enemies but friends. Though passion may have strained, it must not break our bonds of affection. And to those Americans whose support I have yet to earn, I may not have won your vote tonight, but I hear your voices. I need your help. And I will be your president, too. And to all those watching tonight from beyond our shores, from parliaments and palaces, to those who are huddled around radios in the forgotten corners of the world, our stories are singular, but our destiny is shared, and a new dawn of American leadership is at hand. To those -- to those who would tear the world down: We will defeat you. To those who seek peace and security: We support you. And to all those who have wondered if America's beacon still burns as bright: Tonight we proved once more that the true strength of our nation comes not from the might of our arms or the scale of our wealth, but from the enduring power of our ideals: democracy, liberty, opportunity and unyielding hope. That's the true genius of America: that America can change. Our union can be perfected. What we've already achieved gives us hope for what we can and must achieve tomorrow. This election had many firsts and many stories that will be told for generations. But one that's on my mind tonight's about a woman who cast her ballot in Atlanta. She's a lot like the millions of others who stood in line to make their voice heard in this election except for one thing: Ann Nixon Cooper is 106 years old. She was born just a generation past slavery; a time when there were no cars on the road or planes in the sky; when someone like her couldn't vote for two reasons -- because she was a woman and because of the color of her skin. And tonight, I think about all that she's seen throughout her century in America -- the heartache and the hope; the struggle and the progress; the times we were told that we can't, and the people who pressed on with that American creed: Yes we can. At a time when women's voices were silenced and their hopes dismissed, she lived to see them stand up and speak out and reach for the ballot. Yes we can. When there was despair in the dust bowl and depression across the land, she saw a nation conquer fear itself with a New Deal, new jobs, a new sense of common purpose. Yes we can. When the bombs fell on our harbor and tyranny threatened the world, she was there to witness a generation rise to greatness and a democracy was saved. Yes we can. She was there for the buses in Montgomery, the hoses in Birmingham, a bridge in Selma, and a preacher from Atlanta who told a people that "We Shall Overcome." Yes we can. A man touched down on the moon, a wall came down in Berlin, a world was connected by our own science and imagination. And this year, in this election, she touched her finger to a screen, and cast her vote, because after 106 years in America, through the best of times and the darkest of hours, she knows how America can change. Yes we can. America, we have come so far. We have seen so much. But there is so much more to do. So tonight, let us ask ourselves -- if our children should live to see the next century; if my daughters should be so lucky to live as long as Ann Nixon Cooper, what change will they see? What progress will we have made? This is our chance to answer that call. This is our moment. This is our time, to put our people back to work and open doors of opportunity for our kids; to restore prosperity and promote the cause of peace; to reclaim the American dream and reaffirm that fundamental truth, that, out of many, we are one; that while we breathe, we hope. And where we are met with cynicism and doubts and those who tell us that we can't, we will respond with that timeless creed that sums up the spirit of a people: Yes, we can. Thank you. God bless you. And may God bless the United States of America. November 04 Jeremiah 29:11-13Before I forget, 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you," declares the LORD, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. 29:12 Then you will call upon me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. 29:13 You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart. September 27 It's the PhotographerHaving a state-of-the-art high-end DSLR and L-lenses does not make a
good photographer. Reading through the camera manual and knowing all
the functions of it do not make a good photographer (it's basic).
Knowing what lens to use and its limitation/usefulness does not make a
good photographer (it's experience). Knowing the difference between raw
and jpg images do not make a good photographer (it's again basic).
Carrying your cameras and shooting all the time does not make a good
photographer (it's practice). What is it to make a good photographer
then?
Today I visited an photo album and was totally touched. I have read
photo books, national geographic magazines, and visited professional
photographer websites, but was never so touched. This photographer's gear?
His works are not photos. It is art. It's art that you forget about the technical details of the shots. You even appreciate some technical flaws as that elevate the level of the art! You can feel his love for the lands he visited. His works is truly mind-blowing. You will understand what genius is when you see one. I am glad I am able to admire the talented works. Shall I say: It's the Artist (instead of Photographer) Today's a nice day :-) September 16 MuseumI was laughed at last Saturday. Several friends came over last Saturday. Looking at my TV, one of them commented: "your TV should have been sent to the tech museum for display!!" #$%&*@# Hey, it isn't that old! At least it is a CRT flat screen. not the one bulking out. Well, as you might have already guessed, I don't watch TV much. This happenstance also reminded me a while back another friend suggested me to buy new sofa and new furnitures because they were 4 year old already and I needed something more grown-up. Am I out of date? Hmm.... Wild gooseThis morning on the way to work, I saw a teenager with his skateboard standing right by the road, or perhaps on the slowest lane. He is a typical teenager with messy hair, ear plug hanging, funky clothes, low-hanging trousers, and of course the fancy skateboard. You must wonder why I was paying attention to a teenager on the street. Well, it could be that he was too close to the road. Or it could be his wonder eyes and hesitating motion. So I followed where his eyes looked and there it was, a wild goose standing in the middle of the road looking confused. This teenager was waving his skateboard wildly trying to get the goose out of its frozen state of mind. He was also signaling upcoming drivers to avoid this confused goose. Looking from the rear mirror, the goose finally shook itself up and flew away. The teenager continued his journey to school or whatever with the cool skateboard. Suddenly tears in my eyes... Am I getting old to get touched so easily? Perhaps. If I were ever a Buddha, I would come the earth just for that: a seemly wild kid with a caring heart. That moment of glimpse is worth living for. July 05 Alaska impressionI've visited Alaska recently. As you can anticipate, it's a BEAUTIFUL place, stunningly beautiful. However I am not going to talk about that, I am going to talk about how "cold" (Note 1) Alaskan are. ~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~ It started from the moment I was at the gate for the plane to Anchorage. The flight attendant asked us: "What's the special greeting phrase of Alaskans?" (us thinking) "You know, Hawaiians have ALOHA. How about Alaskans?" (we think even harder) "It's I AM COLD" (the flight attendant was LOL and we all froze). ~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~ The bus driver at Denali NP looked serious with mustache and low voice. He explained to us the history of the park and spotted animal for us once in a while while driving. Other than the common mammals (bears, fox, etc), he spotted many different birds that most of us had no idea about, because, from what he said himself, that he had great interest in birds. He collected bird samples. Nobody in the bus seemed to care about birds (due to the lack of knowledge I guess), the bus was very silent and the bus trip seemed bored. After a while, he spotted another bird and said "On your 3 o'clock direction, there is XXX. I love birds, I collect birds. And I eat them too". We all froze. After another long pause, I decided to take a revenge while he mentioned he collect coins from different countries. I asked "Do you eat them too?" It felt great. ~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~ We took the small airplane to Katmai NP for bear watching. The plane was so small that all our backpacks had to be given to the guide. We did that on the way to Katmai. On the way from Katmai, I was kind of unsure and asked "shall I give my bag to you?". The guide friendly replied "yes, and I will keep it forever". ~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~ At Katmai NP, the ranger was explaining to us the male bear as "boar" and the female bear as "saw". Then there was this one guy next to us happily announced: "my wife always called me the BOAR". The ranger replied: "I thought she meant BORING". ~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~ One day we were walking on the street. All in a sudden a family with a middle-aged dad and several kids ran crazily past us, almost knocked us over on the sidewalk. After passing us, the dad hollered "sorry, we are racing with squirrels". ~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~ So I figure, having 8 months of winter with nothing to do, all they can do is to crack jokes. To fit their weather, the jokes have to be subzero cold.... Before I end this blog, I would like to graciously thank my friends Athena and Chris for their insightful suggestions about our Alaska itinerary. After all, you can't beat someone who has visited the state for 7 times. The trip couldn't have been so unforgettable without them. Ask for the link if you wanna see photos of the trip. Warning: your standard of pretty landscape will be dramatically raised after seeing these photos ;) Note 1: "Cold" is an expression commonly used in Taiwan, meaning something is supposedly funny, but not really. After hearing the "joke", the audience stands still don't know whether or not to laugh, as if she's frozen (-->cold). April 09 Demonstration of ???SF is the only N. America stop for 2008 Olympic torch relay. With the route changed the last minute (hence no spectator along except guards), heavy security measure, bold protests all over the world, this is a demonstration of ??? :) March 08 Show Me the Money! - Sustainable Development regarding Su-Hua Highway As Jerry Maguire has shouted: "Show me the money"! Let's face the elephant in the room. It's about money/economy. Why do people care about global warming now? inspired by Al Gore? ;) Some of you might have already guessed... it's the correlation with the $100+/barrel oil. However I would like to stress, the world is not black or white; or in our case, green or blue, environment or development. Only elementary school kids divide people to bad or good guys. We are much more educated than that. Or are we not?! ;) Let's try to answer some questions before we start:
March 06 Hualien is Prettier than 17-Miles California- a late night mumbling about 蘇花高, from someone who was born from the dear land of Hualien So it all went back to around 7 years ago, when I first visited this world-famous 17-miles drive in Sunny California, from the snowy gray depressing steel city Pittsburgh. Some said it's the most beautiful beach in California. Within the drive by the scenic coast, there stands the famous Cypress tree, Pebble Beach Golf course, tens of millions+ gated mansions. One can have a glimpse of Pebble Beach from a quote of Jack Nicklaus (golfer): If I had only one more round to play I would choose to play it at Pebble Beach I've loved this course from the first time I saw it It's possibly the best in the world Having this super high expectation, I almost burst into laugh when I entered the gated community of 17-Miles drive (first and second pictures below). Did I enter a worm hole by chance and back to Hualien (third and fourth pictures below), where I was from? Dear readers, please judge by your own eyes. Do they look similar or what? Exactly, I was all in a sudden in the coast of Hualien, even the air smelled similar. Only... only that Hualien offers more. Some Hualien coast got cliffs; some has sand (7-star sand beach); it has whales near coast; it has Taroko National park (yet another crazy natural wonder) nearby; it has aboriginal cultures; it's where Tzuchi charity (think of Mother Teresa) comes from. If you can't remember all the beauties, simply remember the friendly smiles of people and genuine beauty of the mountains and water. It's funny that I work all the way to the prettiest beach only to find it's from my homeland. When I was a kid, every time there was visitors, parents would took them to Taroko National Park, again and again and again. The groove, the "one-string sky", etc. all seemed so normal/boring to me. Similarly, the air was always pure, the sky was always blue, I could always see the green and blue mountains everyday. No biggie you know? No biggie I said. Till one day when I visited Hualien from my college out of town, I was shocked to see half of the mountain near Taroko National Park was dug out by a cement company!!! I asked Mom, why was this happening. "Because it was right outside the boundary of the Park, and people needed cement to develop", Mom said. Yes, development... in the name of development, the real opportunity was lost. The opportunity that emphasizes the real beauty of that place was lost, forever lost. I can't imagine how much more damages it will do if the highway is built. I never label myself an environmentalist. I support truth, not label. Hualien is world-class pretty. It just needs good organization/packaging/advertisement/etc. Actually, I was too kind. Hualien is like a nature beauty with terrible make-up, or no make-up and dresses badly. What it needs is not a highway that dents its natural beauty. Instead, it needs good dresser and styler, and it needs promotion. You can type 17-miles or Hawaii or Phuket and find tons of tourist information at Google/Yahoo. Can you find nearly as much information for Hualien? We all know the answer. What needs to be done? Highway is definitely not the answer. Given the terrain, even if the highway is built, the time it takes to drive from Taipei to Haulien won't be too much different from taking a train or taking an plane (door-to-door time, while air time is only 25 mins). While the time isn't saved, you skip all the coastal beauty and go directly to the city of Hualien which is... not much the essence of Hualien. This discussion does not even mention the impact of the weekend traffic, parking, air pollution and such. Since I am not a specialist, I cannot tell you how many natural habitats will be destroyed. But I am freaking out already having the half-dug mountain picture in my head... Government shall make things easier for individuals, schools, and industry to innovate, at least not to make it harder ;) People are all smart and dynamic. If for example, train/air tickets and road signs are all labeled consistently with multi-lingual (notice that the key here is "consistency". A translation of "K" shall always be "K" not "K" in one place and "G" in some other place), people from all over the place can tour without confusion. Government shall regulate hotels and travel agencies. There are many many more things government can do to enable the individuals and industries, other than spending money on the highway, where the benefit is to be judged and the demages are almost for certain. And deep in mind I hope Taiwanese government promote Hualien as well as other places in Taiwan like Dubai :) Dubai is amazing. Let me end my mumbling by: If I had only one more round to dance I would choose to dance at 7-Star Beach References: [1] Photos of 17-Miles drive are from Flickr's link1 and link2. [2] Photos of Hualien coast are from here. [3] Link to a forum about 蘇花高 is here. [4] Link to 連署向蘇花高說:不! March 04 Bitches get stuff doneThe two new SNL shows inevitably got lots of presidential nomination materials. During the past weekend, SNL ran a parody of a debate between Hillary and Obama. Amy Poehler as Hillary was asked about serious questions as health care and the likes while Obama was asked whether he was comfortable (it's a parody). Amy Poehler went: "All right, energy policy. The big oil companies are quite happy with the status quo. They're earning record profits and pretty speeches are not going to make them give up power. It's going to take a fighter, not a talker. Someone who is aggressive enough, and relentless enough, and demanding enough to take them on. Someone so annoying, so pushy, so grating, so bossy and shrill, with a personality so unpleasant, that at the end of the day the special interests will have to go, 'Enough! We give up! Life is too short to deal with this awful woman! Just give her what she wants so she'll shut up and leave us in peace!' And I think the American people will agree, that someone is me." Tell me what your reaction is after reading Amy Poehler (or you have watched the show). I couldn't help but roll myself in the ground LOL. And Tina Fey at the weekend before, not as cracking, but clever: "And maybe what bothers me the most is that people say that Hillary is a bitch. And let me say something about that: yeah, she is, and so am I. And so is this one (pointing at Amy Poehler). And you know what, bitches get stuff done. That’s why Catholic schools use nuns as teachers and not priests. Those nuns are mean old clams, and they sleep on cots and are allowed to hit you. And at the end of the school year, you hated those bitches, but you knew the capital of Vermont. So, I’m saying it’s not too late Texas and Ohio. Get on board. Bitch is the new black! ... And finally, in probably the most important women's news item there is, we have our first serious, female presidential candidate in Hillary Clinton. And yet, women have come so far as feminists that they don't feel obligated to vote for a candidate just because she's a woman. Women today feel perfectly free to make whatever choice Oprah tells them to." Rock on. January 27 Man-made GenomeOriginal story is here. Given my background, I found the last paragraph the most interesting: But before researchers can do that level of synthetic biology, scientists will need to automate their methods. Beyond this work, Voigt said, scientists will need programming tools, in the same way computer scientists use higher level programming languages like Fortran, C++ and Java, to control computer function. "(Otherwise it's like) writing Vista in binary," he said. "It's just not going to happen." Before the debate goes to how scary it is for humans to play God (has anyone who programs never realized a bug after the product has been released? ;)), you have to admit this news is extremely exciting yet thrilling. Pandora's box's opened. Entropy of the universe always goes one way. It's double edged. January 14 Extreme EatingFrom Time, Jan 21, 2008 Issue. "...Eating food grown within 100 miles was...basically telling the Iowans that every night they should decide whether to accompany their pork with creamed corn, corn on the cob, corn fritters or corn bread. For dessert, they could have any flavor they wanted of fake ice cream made from soy, provided that flavor was corn... ...The local-food movement is deeply Luddite, part of the green lobby that measures improvement by self-denial more than by actual impact—considering shipping food in containers is often more energy-efficient than a local farmer trucking small amounts that are then purchased on a separate weekend farmers'-market trip you take in your SUV. So I'm going to keep buying food from my foreign neighbors. Because it's the only way we Americans learn about other countries, other than by bombing them." OMG, this is a BRILLIANT essay! The truth is, there are always ways to argue for and against an issue. Taking this "eating local" topic for example, if we don't change how the modern food supply system works, eating local by some is not going to work. Raising awareness, combining the merit of eating local with economic (and other) incentives, shall work better, just like the topic of global warming (who cares about global warming if the timing doesn't correlate with $100/barrel oil price?) December 31 Maxed OutStrongly recommended. It's like watching devil's advocate in real life.
Listen to what the Vegas real estate agent has said, and see what are in
the pawn shop. - "President Reagan urges the consumer to keep on spending, predicting the economy expansion will continue". - On average, for each $1 credit card companies collect on the principal, $2 more dollars are collected on interest and fee. Effectively, the person in debt will pay till they die (The situation is worse in Taiwan. The creditors can chase the person even after one dies. They go after their children, spouse, siblings, relatives). - The amount each year US government pays on interest is more than homeland security, education, and health care combined. Note: The link to the movie "Maxed Out" is here. December 11 Confession and Bodhisattvahttp://www.time.com/time/printout/0,8816,1655415,00.html# Mother Teresa's crisis of faith (at Time Magazine) is very very inspiring to me, in many ways. The first and up-most shock was her lack of feeling of God/light when serving the poor, when devoting herself dearly to God. It's already hard to endure 5 months of darkness for anyone (it could legitimately be called some sort of depression), let alone 50 years. And so to us the totality of love is what we feel. But to really love someone requires commitment, fidelity and vulnerability. And, "If I ever become a Saint — I will surely be one of 'darkness.' I will continually be absent from Heaven — to [light] the light of those in darkness on earth," she wrote in 1962........... Catholic theologians recognize two types of "dark night": the first is purgative, cleansing the contemplative for a "final union" with Christ; the second is "reparative," and continues after such a union, so that he or she may participate in a state of purity even closer to that of Jesus and Mary, who suffered for human salvation despite being without sin. By the end, writes Kolodiejchuk, "by all indications this was the case with Mother Teresa." That made her a bodhisattva in Mahayana's view, who put everyone in front of herself. "Wow", like what Kolodiejchuk has commented. What I wanted to mention is actually not this but about confession. I noticed Mother Teresa confessed sincerely to the priest (or people of the sort from the church) and to God of course. It's not only a trusted channel but also a therapeutic and mentoring channel. And I almost forget such channel is also almost accessible everywhere in the world, at least the western part of the world. Looking back at confession for Buddhists, accessibility? nah. trusted? yah. therapeutic? not sure. mentoring? I doubt. This goes back to my earlier thought about a person to a new environment. He or she can easily join a church and be accepted as a brother or a sister. Such thing does not happen for Buddhists. Buddhists are so to themselves. I suspect that is from the Theravada tradition (as opposed to the Mahayana one). Without families everywhere, how do people find whole-hearted support and grow? No way. Trust, therapy, and mentor, are all built on top of whole-hearted support. I am a Buddhist. But I still have to criticize, based on facts. How can things be done better? December 04 God Grew Tired of UsI don't in particular like the title of the movie. Like darkness, I don't like negative stuff. I believe God always loves us :-) To be honest, I haven't really finished the movie yet, hopefully soon. Nevertheless, it's an inspiring one. In the movie, I saw people leaving their hometown not because of poverty of the land, but because of military actions between different groups of people. People are fighting for resources and powers as to put aside other people's lives. You can say that it happens everywhere in the world, more or less. Hmm, that sounds cold blooded... Let's say we donate some money to help humanitarian organizations. That feels detached although it's as easy as a click. - At least for me, I want some soul-touching stuff. I need connection to people, not just numbers. I believe it's likewise from the other side. - Another aspect is about respect. The boy who got picked to PA was overjoyed but it's a long way to thrive in an alien land (I haven't watched the whole movie yet). He needs to adjust different cultures, even different kinds of food (starting from the flight to US). Would he get the same treatment as he would in his mother land? Who doesn't want to prosper in their mother land? - Yet another aspect is the management of the humanitarian organizations. The boys in the camp spent years doing nothing except the first few years of little education. That was a HUGE waste of human resource. The boys in this documentary kept mentioning they were losing hope. It's heart-broken looking into their eyes, their desperate eyes saying that... I would like them to help me as I would help them. Link to the movie is here. August 16 Shock(Original post on Aug 3rd) A friend J I know from not long ago passed away at the age of 37, in his
dream peacefully. Although I don't know him that well, but our
conversation was still so vivid. His Flamingo/Salsa dance was still
flashing in front of my eyes. Everyday alive is a miracle as what
Premonition the movie said. Knock my head and not forget what's
important. (Aug 16th) Today I got an update about this friend J. And parallel to this, I had a conversation with another friend yesterday. Yes, some person can get ahead by taking advantage of others, by "interpreting things his/her way", by whatever. By the end of the day, it's either God who knows everything or Me who knows what I do myself. It's how much I serve and how rich my heart is that counts, isn't it? Simply put, is my life in vain (make the world a better/happier place? enrich people's life? or at least have a good time during this journey of life?). August 05 Homogeneity and JudgementI was reading this junk news (Chinese) (English). It's nothing serious, just how Emma Watson spent her vacation at Nice. And there came the judgment of the reporter saying how spoiled Emma Watson was regarding the hotel $, champagne $, and dinner $. You see this homogeneity in the standard. She was just living her life, right? If someone really wants to judge, take the ratio of her meal to her income times one's income, and see how much one can "justify" themselves to eat? A meal that is 25 cent? Media likes to claim their right on freedom, the freedom to speak freely. Freedom however comes with responsibility and respect. One cannot extend the right of one thing unlimited without working/paying for it. This junk news again is nothing serious. It's a simple lack of respect, respecting the fact that anyone is a normal human-being, like you and me. If your sister/family is criticized like so, would you be happy about it? When media is covering more serious matters, they should be responsible for how they could shape a society's future, or simply a under-age kid's future (if watching inappropriate too graphical news). In short, there is no "free lunch" for freedom. It comes with responsibility and respect. Along the same line of judgment, this is regarding plastic bag. I bought something the other day from Walgreens. And it came with a plastic bag. I then walked to Trader Joe's across the street to buy some other things. A man (carrying paper bags) coming right out seeing me carrying a plastic bag then yelled at me: "don't use plastic bag!". I looked at him briefly and continued walking into Trader Joe's. I usually use no bag or paper bags as a habit by the way. Ironically last night, I read about a research paper, talking how much more C02 and other pollutants paper bags produce, than plastic bags, in the process of production and transportation. Thinking about judgment :-) August 03 A Booming China Spells Trouble for AmericaThanks to Ta. The original link at NPR is here. I echo the most with the following three panelists. Simply put, the rising of China is a crisis and an opportunity, for US, Taiwan, and the world. It's a very exciting (that sounds too positive isn't it?) moment of the history we are at.
James McGregor, former chief executive of Dow Jones in China, says: "We've learned that China's a very formidable country tonight and we better be scared of them, because why? Well, China has grown very fast and it's moving very fast, but what has happened during this period? China has been shoving all kinds of problems under the carpet. The carpet's getting lumpy, and the country will trip on these problems, and it's going to be very busy for the next few decades fixing this. Environment: China is trash. Sixteen of the 20 worst air-polluted cities in the world are in China. … Health care: … Two-thirds of people don't have health care. ... The have-and-have-not issue is growing and growing. … This is this colossus that's going to take on the United States." Daniel H. Rosen, the principal of China Strategic
Advisory, says: "Though 800 million Chinese are still poor by our
standards, they're striving toward prosperity and not toward extremism. Those
people, those toiling Chinese, are the boom that we're here to pass judgment on
this evening. While their toil brings competitive challenges for us, we would be
gravely mistaken to try to turn back the clock to the failed state China was
before this boom began. Prosperity is not an alternative to political change in
China. In fact, it's been the handmaiden of it. The totalitarian government
ruling $200-per-capita China in 1978 bears practically no resemblance to the
Chinese government managing a $2,000-per-capita economy today. Likewise, the
Chinese government that runs $10,000-per-capita China tomorrow will be vastly
different than the one we deal with today."
J. Stapleton Roy, three-time ambassador serving Singapore, the People's Republic of China and Indonesia, says: "A China that is floundering with a sense of grievance against the world and disaffected with the international system would be a greater danger than a booming China that can feed and clothe its people, educate them domestically and abroad, buy vast amounts of U.S. goods and services, and benefit from the international system. That's a far preferable outcome. Can we handle China's troublesome aspects? Of course we can. … The one requirement for handling any trouble that China causes is that we manage our domestic and international affairs so that we don't squander the enormous advantages that we have. … A booming China offers enormous opportunities for the United States, and holds out the prospect of positive change in the future." July 26 RiverLife is like a river. How we wish to stay in the same nice place, with good friends and silly jokes... But it just flows, non-stop. Do you feel lonely sometimes? Even if you try so hard to stay where you were, things change and people move on? Don't feel sad. That's life ah! like a river, that forks. Thanks God that we meet, crack jokes together, and paddle the same raft. So at the end of the day, our hearts are full with love and our days are not in vain. Perhaps we will meet again who knows? No attachment, as said in Buddhism, is not detachment from everything. It's to love hard, and be able smile (or cry happily) when the river has to fork. If no love, no cry, we are no different from rocks. July 18 達賴喇嘛 祈願文把握當下的選擇 人生就像讀一本書一樣,也是有盡頭的, 光陰飛逝,一晃眼,我們就會面臨這一天。 我,丹增嘉措(達賴喇嘛的姓名), 恐怕再過不了五十年,就只是大家的一個記憶。 而諸位讀者,一百年後,想必也是一樣吧。 時光流逝,擋它不住。 當犯錯時,我們不可能要時鐘倒退,重新來過。 我們所能做的,就是把握現在。 人,當走到人生盡頭時,回顧以往, 如果是活得充實、有貢獻、有意義的話, 至少我們會感到些許安慰。 如果不是,可能就會非常沮喪。 要得到哪一種結果,就看當下的我們如何選擇。 想在走到人生盡頭時,不至於悔恨交加, 那最好的方法就是在當下學會對自己負責、對別人有同情心。 事實上,這樣做,倒不全是為了在未來獲得什麼好處,而是為自己好。 就像我們看到的,同情心讓我們生活變得有意義, 可以帶來永久的快樂與喜悅。 而且同情心是善心的基礎,因為先有同情心, 才會有善心的行動去幫助他人。 只要透過仁慈、愛心、誠實、真理, 以及公正去對待他人, 我們就能從中獲益。 廟堂就在我心 這不需要複雜的理論,這是常識。 請不要懷疑:體諒他人,對你我都有益。 請不要質疑:別人快樂,我們也就快樂 . 請不要否認:社會動盪,我們跟著不安。 也請不要置疑:愈多壞心眼佔據我們的心, 我們就會有愈多的苦難。 因此,我們可以拒絕接受宗教、意識型態, 以及各式各樣的智慧箴言, 但是我們不能逃脫愛與同情的需要。 上述所言,是我最真的信仰、唯一的信念。 就這點而言,世上不必有寺廟或教堂, 不必有清真寺或猶太會堂, 不必有繁複的哲學、教義,或是信條。 廟堂就在我們內心深處,同情心就是我們的教義。 我們所需要的不過是: 當我們面對任何人,都能愛他(她), 以及尊敬他(她)的權利和尊嚴。 只要我們每天都奉行不逾,那不管我們識字與否, 信的是佛祖、上帝、其他宗教的神, 或是什麼都不信,全都不再那麼重要。 只要我們對別人有同情心、對自己有責任感, 那我們一定活得很自在。 但是,為什麼這麼簡單的道理,卻很難做到呢? 那是 因為多數人自認對別人有愛心, 到最後都忘了這個簡單的道理。 我們輕忽抑制邪念以及控制情緒。 我們不像農夫那樣,季節一到,就毫不猶豫地下田耕作。 我們浪費太多寶貴的光陰,去做無意義的事。 我們放著真正重要的事不做,了無絲毫悔意, 卻對像賠錢這樣的瑣事懊喪不已。 我們只是盡情享樂,卻不會滿懷歡欣地去做有益他人的事。 我們總以為自己太忙,所以無暇關懷他人。 我們忙進忙出,忙著算計及打電話,忙著想怎樣做才最有利。 我們手中做著甲事,卻煩惱如果乙事蹦出來了,最好改做乙事。 上面這些舉動,都是人性中最粗糙以及最初步的層面。 更有甚者,由於對他人冷漠,我們最終無可避免地傷害了別人。 我們自認聰明絕頂,但我們有善用才智嗎? 我們通常把這種小聰明用來騙鄰居,占人便宜,好圖利自己。 而當一切不順遂的時候,我們會自以為是,怪罪到別人頭上。 傾聽良知的引導 然而,常存的滿足感是無法從擁有外物而獲得的。 即便我們結交滿天下, 也不會有任何一個朋友可以幫我們獲得心靈解脫。 而縱情聲色最終只會導致受苦受難, 因為這就好比利刃上的糖蜜。 當然,這不是說我們應該鄙視自己的臭皮囊。 當過於專注現實世界的各種利害時, 我們就會看不到人生中最樸實的真理。 當然,如果我們能夠一直興高采烈地周旋利害之中, 那這樣的人生也沒有什麼不好。 問題是,我們不能,因為沒有人可以永遠沒有煩惱 . 充其量,我們只能減少麻煩。 當問題突如其來時,而且毫無例外地一定會來, 我們卻一無準備。這時我們才體會自己的無助。 最後失望及難過縈繞在我們的心中,怎樣都揮之不去。 因此,我在此雙手合十,懇請諸位, 讓你的下半輩子儘可能地活得有意義。 如果可以的話,讓良知良能導引你。 我希望我已經說得很透徹,因為這真的不是很玄妙。 總歸一句話,就是關心他人, 就是真心誠意、持續不停地關心他人。 只要這樣一步一腳印的去做, 久而久之, 你自然會改變想法及態度, 變得愈來愈關心他人,愈來愈不在乎自己的得失 . 最後,你不只內心安泰,而且時時刻刻都是滿心歡喜。 宇宙的過客 去掉忌妒,不要老是想贏過別人, 這樣許多煩惱就會一掃而空。 試著過這樣的生活,很快你就會從中獲益。 心中充滿仁慈、勇氣,以及信心, 你就會發現成功無所不在, 這時你隨時隨地都能笑臉迎人。 要率直、儘量無私,視人人如好友。 我這樣說,不是因為我是會轉世的達賴喇嘛, 或是有什麼神通,我沒有這種特異神力。 我是以一個人的立場,就像你一樣, 祈求真心歡喜,而不被俗欲牽絆受難。 如果基於任何原因,你無法幫助他人,最起碼請你不要傷害別人。 請把自己當成是一個宇宙遊客,地球只是你的景點之一。 當快接近地球時,你發現它是多麼渺小、無足輕重,卻美麗多姿。 在地球這一站停留時,真的可以傷害他人而獲得好處? 難道安詳地放鬆自己和自得其樂,不是比較好, 也比較有理,就像我們造訪異地那樣? 因此,當你在欣賞這個世界之際,有額外時間的話, 試著去幫助那些被踐踏的人,即便是用最微不足道的方法; 以及無法自助的人,不管他們是基於什麼原因。 試著不要拒絕那些外形惹人嫌、衣衫襤褸,以及生病的人。 試著不要認為他們比你低下。 如果可能,試著不要認為你比最卑微的乞丐還優越。 當你在墓中,你會發現每個人都是一樣的。 在結束前,我要和各位分享一篇祈禱文, 這篇祈禱文在我追求助人中, 給我極大的啟示: 願我生生世世,從現在到永遠, 都是無所依靠者的保護人 迷路人的嚮導 汪洋渡海人的船舶 過河人的橋 險者的庇護殿堂 黑暗中人的明燈 流浪著的收容所 以及所有求助著 隨侍在側的僕人 March 01 FilterI read a lot of books recently about filter. Not that I picked books
about filter, but the books I read happened to talk about filter from
different context. I thought it's quite interesting. Simply put, filter
is a way to explain karma. Please don't recall what you know about
karma. Let's just stick with filter. The way we experience the world is the way we see the world. The way we see the world is from our past experience. That is, our past conditions the way we experience now. Every event is neutral in essence. My car's breakdown is neutral although I might be upset. But car mechanics has new business because of my car's breakdown. And after all, things break as a law of nature. So you see, things are as they are. They have positive/negative effects because of the filter you possess. Okay, at this point I know you are gonna pick on me on extreme events such as crimes and stuff. Don't get us there. So if I feel the world being unfair to be, I have to ask myself if I am fair to others. I know this theory doesn't make sense on the first thought. Try to reflect like this, and you will be surprised. I am practicing on this too. Another way to describe this is, if you wear color glasses, the world will be in color. If one sees others in an seducing/uninterested, fair/unfair, generous/taking advantage, etc way, the people around him/her will be in that way. Take off the glasses and see them as they are, one won't be rejected/cheated/used/etc. Oh, what ever happened objectively still happened. A house was burned was a house burned. Filtering this event differently didn't deny the thing from ever happening. Filtering is related the way we perceive and affects our acts afterwards. Okay, have fun and let me keep practicing :) January 18 When Not Seeing Is BelievingThis is a great article about faith in religions. "If God is beyond our categories, then God can't be captured for certain". ------------ Time Magazine, Monday, Oct. 02, 2006
By Andrew Sullivan
Something about the visit to the U.N. by Iranian President Mahmoud Ahmadinejad refuses to leave my mind. It wasn't his obvious intention to pursue nuclear technology and weaponry. It wasn't his denial of the Holocaust or even his eager anticipation of Armageddon. It was something else entirely. It was his smile. In every interview, confronting every loaded question, his eyes seemed calm, his expression at ease, his face at peace. He seemed utterly serene. What is the source of his extraordinary calm? Yes, he's in a relatively good place right now, with his Hizballah proxies basking in a military draw with Israel. Yes, the U.S. is bogged down in a brutal war in Iraq. But Ahmadinejad is still unpopular at home, the Iranian economy is battered, and his major foes, Israel and the U.S., far outgun him--for now. So let me submit that he is smiling and serene not because he is crazy. He is smiling gently because for him, the most perplexing and troubling questions we all face every day have already been answered. He has placed his trust in the arms of God. Just because it isn't the God that many of us believe in does not detract from the sincerity or power of his faith. It is a faith that is real, all too real--gripping billions across the Muslim world in a new wave of fervor and fanaticism. All worries are past him, all anxiety, all stress. "Peoples, driven by their divine nature, intrinsically seek good, virtue, perfection and beauty," Ahmadinejad said at the U.N. "Relying on our peoples, we can take giant steps towards reform and pave the road for human perfection. Whether we like it or not, justice, peace and virtue will sooner or later prevail in the world with the will of Almighty God." Human perfection. Whether we like it or not. Justice, peace and virtue. That concept of the beneficent, omnipotent will of God and the need to always submit to it, whether we like it or not, is not new. It has been present in varying degrees throughout history in all three great monotheismsJudaism, Christianity and Islamfrom their very origins. And with it has come the utter certainty of those who say they have seen the face of God or have surrendered themselves to his power or have achieved the complete spiritual repose promised by the Books of all three faiths: the Torah, the Gospels, the Koran. That is where the smile comes from. Complete calm comes from complete certainty. In today's unnerving, globalizing, sometimes terrifying world, such religious certainty is a balm more in demand than ever. In the new millennium, Muslims are not alone in grasping the relief of submission to authority. The new Pope, despite his criticism of extremist religion and religious violence, represents a return to a more authoritarian form of Catholicism. In the Catholic triad of how we know truth--an eternal dialogue between papal authority, scriptural guidance and the experience of the faithful--Benedict XVI has tilted the balance decisively back toward his own unanswerable truth. What was remarkable about his recent address on Islam is what most critics missed. The bulk of his message was directed at the West, at its disavowal of religious authority and its embrace of what Benedict called "the subjective 'conscience.'" For Benedict, if your conscience tells you something that differs from his teaching, it is a false conscience, a sign not of personal integrity but of sin. And so he has silenced conscientious dissent within the church and insisted on absolutism in matters like abortion, end-of-life decisions, priestly celibacy, the role of women, homosexuality and interfaith dialogue. In Protestant Christianity, especially in the U.S., the loudest voices are the most certain and uncompromising. Many megachurches, which preach absolute adherence to inerrant Scripture, are thriving, while more moderate denominations are on the decline. That sense of certainty has even entered democratic politics in the U.S. We have, after all, a proudly born-again President. And religious certainty surely cannot be disentangled from George W. Bush's utter conviction that he has made no mistakes in Iraq. "My faith frees me," the President once wrote. "Frees me to make the decisions that others might not like. Frees me to do the right thing, even though it may not poll well. Frees me to enjoy life and not worry about what comes next." In every messy context, the President seeks succor in a simple certainty--good vs. evil, terror vs. freedom--without sensing that wars are also won in the folds of uncertainty and guile, of doubt and tactical adjustment that are alien to the fundamentalist psyche. I remember in my own faith journey that in those moments when I felt most lost in the world, I moved toward the absolutist part of my faith and gripped it with the white knuckles of fear. I brooked no dissent and patrolled my own soul for any hint of doubt. I required a faith not of sandstone but of granite. Many Western liberals and secular types look at the zealotry closing in on them and draw an obvious conclusion: religion is the problem. As our global politics become more enamored of religious certainty, the stakes have increased, they argue, and they have a point. The evil terrorists of al-Qaeda invoke God as the sanction for their mass murder. And many beleaguered Americans respond by invoking God's certainty. And the cycle intensifies into something close to a religious war. When the Presidents of the U.S. and Iran speak as much about God as about diplomacy, we have entered a newly dangerous era. The Islamist resurgence portends the worst. Imagine the fanaticism of 16th century Christians, waging religious war and burning heretics at the stake. Now give them nukes. See the problem? Domestically, the resurgence of religious certainty has deepened our cultural divisions. And so our political discourse gets more polarized, and our global discourse gets close to impossible. How, after all, can you engage in a rational dialogue with a man like Ahmadinejad, who believes that Armageddon is near and that it is his duty to accelerate it? How can Israel negotiate with people who are certain their instructions come from heaven and so decree that Israel must not exist in Muslim lands? Equally, of course, how can one negotiate with fundamentalist Jews who claim that the West Bank is theirs forever by biblical mandate? Or with Fundamentalist Christians who believe that Israel's expansion is a biblical necessity rather than a strategic judgment? There is, however, a way out. And it will come from the only place it can come from--the minds and souls of people of faith. It will come from the much derided moderate Muslims, tolerant Jews and humble Christians. The alternative to the secular-fundamentalist death spiral is something called spiritual humility and sincere religious doubt. Fundamentalism is not the only valid form of faith, and to say it is, is the great lie of our time. There is also the faith that is once born and never experiences a catharsis or "born-again" conversion. There is the faith that treats the Bible as a moral fable as well as history and tries to live its truths in the light of contemporary knowledge, history, science and insight. There is a faith that draws important distinctions between core beliefs and less vital ones--that picks and chooses between doctrines under the guidance of individual conscience. There is the faith that sees the message of Jesus or Muhammad as a broad indicator of how we should treat others, of what profound holiness requires, and not as an account literally true in all respects that includes an elaborate theology that explains everything. There is the dry Deism of many of America's Founding Fathers. There is the cafeteria Christianity of, say, Thomas Jefferson, who composed a new, shortened gospel that contained only the sayings of Jesus that Jefferson inferred were the real words of the real rabbi. There is the open-minded treatment of Scripture of today's Episcopalianism and the socially liberal but doctrinally wayward faith of most lay Catholics. There is the sacramental faith that regards God as present but ultimately unknowable, that looks into the abyss and hopes rather than sees. And there are many, many more varieties. But all those alternative forms come back to the same root. Those kinds of faith recognize one thing, first of all, about the nature of God and humankind, and it is this: If God really is God, then God must, by definition, surpass our human understanding. Not entirely. We have Scripture; we have reason; we have religious authority; we have our own spiritual experiences of the divine. But there is still something we will never grasp, something we can never know--because God is beyond our human categories. And if God is beyond our categories, then God cannot be captured for certain. We cannot know with the kind of surety that allows us to proclaim truth with a capital T. There will always be something that eludes us. If there weren't, it would not be God. That faith begins with the assumption that the human soul is fallible, that it can delude itself, make mistakes and see only so far ahead. That, after all, is what it means to be human. No person has had the gift of omniscience. Yes, Christians may want to say that of Jesus. But even the Gospels tell us that Jesus doubted on the Cross, asking why his own father seemed to have abandoned him. The mystery that Christians are asked to embrace is not that Jesus was God but that he was God-made-man, which is to say, prone to the feelings and doubts and joys and agonies of being human. Jesus himself seemed to make a point of that. He taught in parables rather than in abstract theories. He told stories. He had friends. He got to places late; he misread the actions of others; he wept; he felt disappointment; he asked as many questions as he gave answers; and he was often silent in self-doubt or elusive or afraid. God-as-Omniscience, by definition, could do and be none of those things. Hence, the sacrifice entailed in God becoming man. So, at the core of the very Gospels on which fundamentalists rely for their passionate certainty is a definition of humanness that is marked by imperfection and uncertainty. Even in Jesus. Perhaps especially in Jesus. As humans, we can merely sense the existence of a higher truth, a greater coherence than ourselves, but we cannot see it face to face. That is either funny or sad, and humans stagger from one option to the other. Neither beasts nor angels, we live in twilight, and we are unsure whether it is a prelude to morning or a prelude to night. The 16th century writer Michel de Montaigne lived in a world of religious war, just as we do. And he understood, as we must, that complete religious certainty is, in fact, the real blasphemy. As he put it, "We cannot worthily conceive the grandeur of those sublime and divine promises, if we can conceive them at all; to imagine them worthily, we must imagine them unimaginable, ineffable and incomprehensible, and completely different from those of our miserable experience. 'Eye cannot see,' says St. Paul, 'neither can it have entered into the heart of man, the happiness which God hath prepared for them that love him.'" In that type of faith, doubt is not a threat. If we have never doubted, how can we say we have really believed? True belief is not about blind submission. It is about open-eyed acceptance, and acceptance requires persistent distance from the truth, and that distance is doubt. Doubt, in other words, can feed faith, rather than destroy it. And it forces us, even while believing, to recognize our fundamental duty with respect to God's truth: humility. We do not know. Which is why we believe. In this sense, our religion, our moral life, is simply what we do. A Christian is not a Christian simply because she agrees to conform her life to some set of external principles or dogmas, or because at a particular moment in her life, she experienced a rupture and changed herself entirely. She is a Christian primarily because she acts like one. She loves and forgives; she listens and prays; she contemplates and befriends; her faith and her life fuse into an unself-conscious unity that affirms a tradition of moral life and yet also makes it her own. In that nonfundamentalist understanding of faith, practice is more important than theory, love is more important than law, and mystery is seen as an insight into truth rather than an obstacle. And that is how that kind of faith interacts with politics. If we cannot know for sure at all times how to govern our own lives, what right or business do we have telling others how to live theirs? From a humble faith comes toleration of other faiths. And from that toleration comes the oxygen that liberal democracy desperately needs to survive. That applies to all faiths, from Islam to Christianity. In global politics, it translates into a willingness to recognize empirical reality, even when it disturbs our ideology and interests. From moderate religion comes pragmatic politics. From a deep understanding of human fallibility comes the political tradition we used to call conservatism. I remember my grandmother's faith. She was an Irish immigrant who worked as a servant for priests. In her later years she lived with us, and we would go to Mass together. She was barely literate, the seventh of 13 children. And she could rattle off the Hail Mary with the speed and subtlety of a NASCAR lap. There were times when she embarrassed me--with her broad Irish brogue and reflexive deference to clerical authority. Couldn't she genuflect a little less deeply and pray a little less loudly? And then, as I winced at her volume in my quiet church, I saw that she was utterly oblivious to those around her. She was someplace else. And there were times when I caught her in the middle of saying the Rosary when she seemed to reach another level altogether--a higher, deeper place than I, with all my education and privilege, had yet reached. Was that the certainty of fundamentalism? Or was it the initiation into a mystery none of us can ever fully understand? I'd argue the latter. The 18th century German playwright Gotthold Lessing said it best. He prayed a simple prayer: "If God were to hold all Truth concealed in his right hand, and in his left hand only the steady and diligent drive for Truth, albeit with the proviso that I would always and forever err in the process, and to offer me the choice, I would with all humility take the left hand, and say, Father, I will take this--the pure Truth is for You alone." That sentiment is as true now as it was more than two centuries ago when Lessing wrote it. Except now the very survival of our civilization may depend on it. November 15 Lollipops趁年輕失敗 更能蓄積成功能量 I am pasting the first article here in case it is gone after a while: 趁年輕失敗 更能蓄積成功能量 【文/成章瑜】
每一個人背後都有好幾根繩索,主宰成功,也主宰失敗。但是大多數的人都只投資成功線,很少人願意花力氣找失敗的線索。但是只有成功經驗的人,會越來越害怕成功,因為他完全不熟悉失敗這回事。 五十七歲的杜台興,是國內首屈一指的射擊選手,拿下無數獎牌,但他屢次挑戰國際金牌總鎩羽而歸。百思不得其解,他轉向研究心理學後頓悟:「原來我害怕成功,總在成功那一線間,被我自己砸掉了!」 因為在射擊場上,你必須心無旁騖,才能瞄準靶心。只要害怕成敗的念頭一浮上心頭,即便是短暫的一秒,都可能功敗垂成。
彼得潘症候群:年輕人怕失敗,常怪罪他人、推諉塞責
近來,台灣興起一股「彼得潘症候群」(編按:指即使年紀不小,但行為與個性都還表現得像孩子一樣)。教育心理學專家鄭石岩觀察,台灣年輕人不但越來越害怕失敗,更盡量避免失敗,甚至延後畢業以延緩面對社會。他說,這是「迷(Me)世代」的特徵。 長期觀察台灣社會變遷的台大心理系教授楊國樞也憂心,目前台灣社會有「幼稚化」的傾向,在面對失敗時,常會怪罪他人,或自我逃避或自我苛責,拒絕成長。而中國人的「面子」問題,也讓台灣人在養成教育中,有低自尊傾向,不能容忍失敗,不敢勇於任事,或推諉塞責。 然而,哈佛管理學院教授Stefan H. Thomke說,失敗其實不是壞事,「雖然這麼說的時候,總是有許多人瞪著我心想這人是不是瘋了,但失敗真的是個很重要的歷練過程。」 在鴻海集團富士康昆山科技工業園內,就掛著郭台銘自己寫下的對聯:「失敗常含經驗智慧,堪稱難得諍友;成功只有無知膽怯,實乃差勁導師。」 微軟執行副總裁邁克爾也說,「我們尋找那些能夠從錯誤中學會某些東西、主動適應的人才。」在錄用過程當中,「我們總會問應聘者:你遇到的最大失敗是什麼?你從中學到什麼?」 不只要正面看待失敗,失敗,也要趁年輕。「因為早發生、成本不會太高且有正面貢獻的失敗,應該不只是被容忍,甚至應該被鼓勵,」Stefan H. Thomke說,「如何熟練失敗的快、失敗的便宜、並且朝成功再邁進,十分重要。」 為什麼要越年輕失敗越好?
越早受挫越好:成本低、復原力高,具改變的迫切性
因為失敗是一種很好的抽繩索練習,啟動人們對自我人格形成及思考模式的探索,發掘盲點及罩門;且越年輕失敗,復原力(resilience)越高,越能儲 存能量,尤其是二十歲以前。美國心理學家卡提爾(R.B.Cattell)就提出「流質智力」(fluid intelligences)和「晶質智力」(crystallized intelligences)的理論。 根據該理論,人的智力分成「流質智力」與「晶質智力」。流質智力,隨神經系統的成熟而提高,如分類、邏輯、推理、記憶等,但二十歲該智力便開始衰減。 而「晶質智力」,則是經由社會文化經驗所獲得,如詞彙、語言等,隨年紀增長而增加。 換言之,人若能越早失敗、受挫,可充分利用高峰時的「流質智力」,更快適應環境、重新爬起來。郭泓志的球涯,就是最好的說明,即使面臨七年的接連挫敗,但年輕,是最大的本錢,讓他更有機會全面改造自己。 有趣的是,在遺傳學上也有相關立論,英國數學家費雪(Ronald Fisher)及美國生物學家萊特(Sewall Wright)就提出論述:所有生物的進化,如果敢先向下降到谷底,就有可能再創另一個高峰。 「這就是中國人講的生於憂患,死於安樂。但生物多不願向下增加適應性,就像很多人不願意嘗試失敗一樣,因為他必須面臨生存絕境的考驗,」研究族群遺傳學的台大病理研究所助理教授王弘毅說。 為什麼一定要降到谷底?因為要到生死關頭,才有改變的迫切性,很多生物的進化,都是從浩劫後而來。 聰明的年輕失敗學,是一種抽繩索練習。
三步驟抽繩,勿妄圖走捷徑
抽繩索是將失敗轉換成日後的成功。但多數人的盲點,在於想找捷徑。但「從錯中找對」卻是一門沒有捷徑、只有苦功夫,而且一定要學會的人生必修課。根據理論,你要如何抽,有三大步驟。
一、打開情緒死結 長期進行心理諮商的鄭石岩說,一般人面對失敗,通常會沮喪、無助、拒絕承認,甚至憤怒。但這時,要使用「現實療法」,認清真實的情況,不能選擇性解釋,才能夠看清失敗的本質。 通常,失敗情緒有四個死結,一、陷入負面情緒,無法自拔;二、選擇逃避,自以為下一次就會成功;三、以自傲掩飾自卑,阻斷了尋求協助的管道;四、無法靜心,影響注意力以及判斷力。「如果不能夠解開這四個死結,失敗的繩子會越綁越緊,」政大心理系教授許文耀說。 二、先找問題點,而不是先找答案 失敗當下,很多人會急著找答案,但「如果不知道自己的敵人在哪裡,怎麼會有對的答案?」許文耀說。 「每一個人背後都有好幾根繩子,」聯強國際總裁杜書伍說。這些繩子,主宰成功,也主宰失敗。唯有找到那些繩子,自我探索、剖析,才可以將失敗轉化為成功。 「最大敵人通常是成見,」許文耀說,很多失敗來自於用慣用的標準看事情,不論是留在自己構築的城堡,或是避開反對你的訊息,都會阻礙你找到敵人。更精確的說,這些失敗,都來自你的弱點。 三、訓練自己擁有改變的能力 要擁有改變的能力,可再細分四個步驟。首先,要先有改變的意願,有些人知道要改變,卻沒有改變的意願。其次,則要找到改變的方向,再設計出短中長期的合理的目標,最後,則要尋求周邊的支援系統。 你必須細緻的檢查每一個步驟,能不能完整蒐集資訊,有沒有短中長期的規畫,是否有正確的邏輯推導,可不可以統整訊息,並清楚的認知環境。答案必須量身訂作,然後每天持續按表操課。如果三天捕魚,兩天曬網,週休二日,就很難改變。
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