3月15日
- 4/29/2007 by T
First of all, there
is nothing absolute positive or negative. However, whatever brings you
peace and happiness is positive. Whatever makes you angry, uneasy, anxious is negative.
Mental status is more important than the physical being or materials you own in
regard of happiness. One can be homeless but content or can be a millionaire with endless worries. Having said that, I still need this hat to block the light
:) (Dalai Lama's eyes are sensitive to the strong light of the auditorium)
Okay, I am done with the talk :) (Laugh...) How (to creating positive change)?
- When I meet
people, I try to deliver two messages: human value, and religious harmony.
- I recall some
Buddhist teaching from the 8th century. If you want to control the thousands
of things outside of you, the infinite amount of things outside of you, how is it possible? However if you go back to yourself, the inner you, it is all easy.
- Like temperature,
hot and cold don't coexist. Anger and joy don't coexist. The way to heal
anger/anxiety/fear/etc is to cultivate its counter emotion.
- We as humans are
special because of mothers. We were born from mothers, not from flowers. Even
more, we were nurtured by mother's milk. That's why humans have more
affections than other animals. Everyone here in the auditorium, I ask you to give
maximum affection to your children, spend maximum time with them. Given love,
they can do the same to others. In the future, humans may be born from machines. I
don't know. Perhaps they will make less trouble, haha :)
- Compassion
is the best medicine to everything. For example, there was one time, I was really
sick in Bodhgaya. I saw some poor and sick people on the
street. One of them were really really ill. On my way to the hospital, I thought
of them, especially the really ill one. My pain was not as acute anymore. Have
compassion to your enemy too. They were not born to be your enemies. They might
become your friends later. Have compassion for them. I have
compassion for China, everybody. Confront your enemy with compassion, with
determination, with confidence.
- Now, let's talk about the second
aspect: the religious harmony. How do we treat your own religion and other religions? Faith and Respect. Have faith in your own
religion and have respect to others. Is there THE best religion? No.
There is only the best region for You. There is no single best religion in the
world. All the religions in the world serve people. They want to improve the
quality of human's lives. They want to reduce our fear, give us peace, and so
on. In a higher level, they are all the same. My Christian brothers and sisters
call me a good Christians :)
- Treating Muslims
as enemies just because of a few bad Muslims in 911 is wrong! There were bad
Christians, bad Tibetan Buddhists...
Q and A:
- Q: How do we solve the gap between the poor and the rich, from a group of young people working on community
projects?
A: The rich has to help in education/infrastructure and the poor has to
work hard! The initiatives come from inside. One has to believe he/she is no
worse than others. He/she has to be confident and work hard. Integrating the
rich and the poor together in such a project let the rich realize the
reality and let the poor have a sense of community. This is good. Go do more
research!
- Q: As a new mom, how
can I teach a baby/child to be kind and compassionate?
A: You are asking a wrong person. I am a monk. Haha! As I said before, give your maximum affection and compassion.
- Q: As an ordinary person, what can we do to help world peace?
A: Pray to heaven, haha! (Dalai Lama praying and looking upward) Problem's solved! Haha. Little by little, seek peace within yourself, then within your family, then your community, then bigger and bigger.
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